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Preparing for a Cult Intervention
( 49 Votes )
Monday, 02 November 2009 15:51
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I have found two basic types of people that join cults (aside from those born into one – a story for another time). The first is the one that falls in love with the cult; it’s organization, personality of the leaders, charisma, energy, collective power, the supposedly miraculous, the supposed accurate foretelling of the future, the seeming clarity of life. While espousing ethereal beliefs and claiming fervently to “now having the only true religion,” their real interest lies, not in doctrine, but in the group itself. The victim perceives consciously or subconsciously that the group just happens to fulfill their own physical and psychological needs. Being a working part of the organization is the key to their mental health.  Their seeming interest in God is really taking a back seat to their own animal needs. These are the ones that will hang on to the cult for dear life. They can get out, but it will only be if they are disillusioned and lose the personal benefits (common scenario), or if they actually find another group or form of therapy that gives even greater personal returns (rare).

On the other hand, some individuals really are searching for God and are willing to listen to anything that sounds logical and meaningful, but are also willing to grow and change once given wiser, more accurate information. Often they have been loosely involved with other religious organizations in the past. They may be attracted to cults out of curiosity and the desire to learn what they are all about. Yet it is usually only a matter of time before the lying and obfuscation of the cult leadership shows through, and the spiritual adventurer will look for something better. Since they are really searching for ethereal truths, a controlling organization will stifle their spiritual growth and feel stale in time, offering diminishing returns. Cult mind control has much less effect on them, as they have less to lose in exiting the group than the first type mentioned above.

Either way, an intervention works basically the same way.

 
Who are Ripe for Cult Interventions? (and who should be left in cults)
( 11 Votes )
Written by Randall Watters   
Friday, 30 October 2009 13:22
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Intervention vs. Exit-Counseling

An intervention is more recognized as a one-time event, whereas exit-counseling may include ongoing counseling with the person even long after the cult experience. Yet they really describe one and the same type of therapy – a professional who is extracting a victim from potential danger, and thereafter working to minimize the damage done by the cult experience. I prefer to use the phrase exit- counselor, which I will shorten to EC for brevity.

Steven Hassan, one of the world's foremost exit counselors, does not recommend that we go out and try to get family members or friends out of a cult without professional help, and I agree with that. A botched effort means you probably won’t get a second chance. More than likely, you will make the situation worse and forever alienate the person you are trying to reach. So if at all possible, find someone with a lot of experience and a good track record.

 
Why Some People are Better Off in Cults
( 20 Votes )
Written by Randall Watters   
Wednesday, 30 September 2009 16:40
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Families

The family unit has always been the core of mankind’s strength to survive sometimes insurmountable odds against nature, other men and the arbitrariness of life. When you stand alone, you have no one there to hold you up, defend you or take care of you.

If, on the other hand, you are part of a nurturing family, you have access to the helps of others, and in turn are obligated to be there when another in the family suddenly needs you. Families create stability.

The need for family is so ingrained in us, that in the absence of a traditional family, most of us will seek out alternate “family” to meet this need. A missing father or mother, an abusive family member, a lack of friends to share with, or our own physical or emotional inability to take care of ourselves, are all extremely powerful primal reasons to find replacements who will more or less fill this need for family.

 
Coming Out of the Watchtower - Why So Difficult?
( 20 Votes )
Written by Randall Watters   
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Randy's review of mind control issues among JWs, then audience participation on the struggles they had in leaving the Watchtower. Over 40 ex-Jehovah's Witnesses are visible and include their comments. Filmed in 1991 but still works the same way today.  First 45 minutes of the DVD only, but the full version with John Peiffer testimony is on DVD in our Store.

 
Recovery Series: How To Witness To Jehovah's Witnesses
( 6 Votes )
Written by Randall Watters   
Saturday, 12 September 2009 09:34
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This is the preliminary part of the DVD by the same name (How To Witness To Jehovah's Witnesses) that is distributed by Freeminds.org, with the beginning segment narrated by former Bethel headquarters members Randall Watters and Robert Sullivan.

It was recorded in 1990. Randall went on to become an exit-counselor.

Introduction on Youtube

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